Lost child

She was only 4 or 5 months old when she was taken home.
She never knew where she came from.
She was a 'business transaction'.
So if she was about 4 to 5 months old when she finally have somewhere to call home and people to love, and her birthdate ain't real like is stated on the birth cert, then when is it?
Can someone please tell her when is her birthday?

Whats in store for us in the year of the RAT?

Just put my son to bed for his nap. He always take naps after bathtime. Only sometimes, he decides that he wants to join in the fun with others other than his parents then only he will fight to stay awake. I myself is fighting sleep too because I know if I sleep now, I would not be able to sleep tonight. American Idol is on at the moment and its such a wonder how i am typing this post at the computer table and my head turned towards the TV. Of course my the spelling is not all these perfect as from time to time i will turn my head back to check on it but ya, basically now my head is turned towards the TV and I have no idea what alphabets i am typing. Just trusting my memory on the keyboards where the ABCs are...

Know what? I have not done any CNY clothes shopping and I don't think I am going to do any. Why? Because I just spent a whole chunk of money on having my eyes checked and getting myself spectacles. Can't wear contact lens all the time can I? *sigh* Now that Hubby and I have Jaden, there are a lot of things to take into consideration and money is not spent without a lot of thinking like "Do I really need this?" "Will this be really worth my money?" I mean if we don't need some things, we will just not get it. Rather save for rainy weathers.. When you have a child, I guess your mind is just on the child's wellbeing.

Its the year of the RAT this year. Hmm.. wonder what it means to me as a PIG?

Chinese Horoscope predictions
For people who are born in the year of the Pig, the Rabbit, and the Goat, the Rat year will bring “Flower of Romance” so one can anticipate a more sociable year with more opportunity to develop friendship with the opposite sex...

If I were still single, I prolly look forward to the "developing friendship with the opposite sex" but too bad, I am married and taken so well.. good luck to all my other single PIG friends then. If this prediction is true, then I hope kai-ma gets her dream come true when she goes Cambodia. I am still against the idea of her going tho.. bad girl don't want to listen to me, what to do?

Found out something about Hubby. He thought he was a SHEEP all these while but noo.. his birthdate indicates that he is actually a HORSEY! Reading this makes it sound so true about him..

Enough about horoscopes.. its time for some Jaden's picture galore again :-

Jaden works...

Been out and about these few days, making trips to and fro PJ and KL, bringing my son with me. Yea, such a small boy and hes already working. His job scope = to sit and behave like an angel in the car while mummy drives. Occasionally will doze off and smile at people. He gets wages from daddy for working.Bagus kan?

I can't wait to lay my hands on JUNO (DVD). Its supposed to be a good story. Her pregnancy seemed real, with the belly button sticking out so yea, with all the pregnancy hoo-haas going on, it got me excited to want to watch this movie.

Chinese New Year is near. Somehow this year, I am not really anticipating it as much as before. Maybe its because I don't get to celebrate it the way I used to. Back to Perlis and all.. but it will be my very first tho, to celebrate with my very own family. When Jaden grows a little older, maybe next year, I shall take him back with me to my hometown to celebrate it with my cousins.. if the father allows. If not, I'd also take him back laa! Taking your son to your own hometown away from the father for a few days is not counted as kidnapping right? A mother has every right to bring her son right? Right?

Its been really hot in the afternoons and then rain cats and dogs in the evening. This weather has been making a lot of people fall sick and most of my friends have the same sickness as I did. *sigh* It is granted that no matter what day or month, just be it CNY, the weather will just turn really hot! My house is feeling like an oven. Going to hide myself in my fridge (room) now..

He is 4 months old today!

Jaden is 4 months old today!
Can't believe it...
It was as if it was a Friday morning, Hubby waking me up early to bathe and wash my hair thoroughly because that will be the last I wash my hair till like 3 weeks later...
Having a roti telur before heading to the medical centre to admit myself.
Doctor broke my water bag and something was stuffed up my ass to make me clean my bowels completely.
Put on IV Drip to hasten contractions... got my very first epidural.
Joked and talked and attempted to watch movie with Joy in the labor room.
Have her and Hubby to massage my feet and move it about tho I could no longer feel anything from waist below...
and pop comes the baby...
*sigh* maybe somethings aren't meant to be forgettable..

Friends over

Last night Hubby went for Thevi's wedding. It was a garden reception. Something different from the norm we Malaysians always do -ballrooms or restaurants. Hubby told me they even had police escorts. Guess it will be something to remember for the rest of her life. Sweet sweet Stuart to see to it, making his bride the happiest woman on earth last night. Saw some photos from Josie's camera. Thevi looked so pretty in her red sari.. *sigh* another couple happily married..

Jaden has got lots of visitors last night. Such a happy baby.

Kai-ma came over and played with him. Read him stories, which he enjoyed and rewarded his kai-ma with his toothless smiles. Its almost a month since kai-ma came over to see her boy. She says that Jaden is now starting to look like his father. Hmm..

Carrie, Meu Yan and Jojie also came over last night. Real late but the little boy was not sleeping yet so guess it was okay. Anyway, I think he loves his guests. The girls were dropping hubby home and they came up to see Jaden. Carrie and Meu Yan has yet to see the little boy and their first reply to Hubby's question was "He looks like his mother!" Hubby still thinks Jaden has got my looks. The masculine version of me. *sigh* What if he looks like me or Hubby? He is still our son right?

Jaden was so happy to see the girls and his father of course. Think he misses his father. Jaden got lots to talk to his father. He just kept babbling and cooing and smiling and playing. Think he finally fell asleep at about 330am. Naughty boy was trying to fight sleep although his eyes were already half-shut. Well, lets just say the little boy slept from 330am till 9am today for his feed, then at 11am and then 130pm.

Just gave him a leg and tummy massage and hes fast asleep again. His nap time. As soon as he wakes up, will be giving him his bath. He loves the water. Loves kicking his legs, splashing the water.. if he only knew when he was about 3-4 days old, he hated the water. Scared of it, screaming his head off each time we wanted to bathe him and today, he just can't wait to get into his bathtub!

Kefentse is going to be in Kl in Feb! Can't wait to meet up with him. FYI, hes from Botswana and is one of my favourite Botswana friend. A very smart, polite and gentle guy. Erm.. like BFG in a way. Anyway, I hope we all could meet up for dinner.. told Joy to get herself ready for his arrival. You never know if he might take her back as his bride! hahahahaha =) Now that Kefentse will be in Malaysia, wonder when Kemiso will be coming. I missed that girl too. I remember us Malaysians teaching them Botswanians Malay for the first time. They asked us how to say "How are you?" and we told them the translation -"Saya perogol bersiri!" Mean right? ahahhahahhahahahha They didn't believe us anyway. Smart smart!

Oritey, my boy is awake now. Time to prepare bath water and play mommy!
ciaoz~

My little feet :: Jan 2008

Sleeping child

My son is sleeping out in the living room right now as I am typing this post. Waiting for his kai-ma to come over to play with him. *sigh* got to get ready his bath soon as not to bath him too late just in case he gets confused again and then cry non stop. His father is not here to calm him down at the moment and that is bad bad news to the mother. Took him for his second class of massage yesterday and boy! Did he really sleep when he came home after the massage but maybe it was because it was memang his sleeping time. FYI, my boy sleeps real late like 2am - 3am and then is only fully awake at 230pm onwards, followed by short naps.. What a wonderful life right? To be able to sleep like that and wake up to eat and play and then sleep again. But then, hes only a baby and he should have every right to enjoy what he does at the moment. Life is short! He will soon be all grown up, having to worry about homework / school / peers / exams and then girls.. and then work.. I wished I was back in his shoes again because I know I did really enjoy my childhood tremendously!

Dripped! AGAIN!

The freaking f**king aircon started dripping again and its only been two months since we last had it repaired. Wondered what could be the problem this time? The weather? Too hot? Aarrgghh.. its making me depress!!! Who wants to sponsor me a new aircon? FREAKING LG AIRCON that can't even last 5 years.. my mom's National aircon is more than 10 years and is still working fine! Is there anything done by LG that will lasts? AArrgghh!!! I wanna make a complain to LG soon...

and the best thing is that I have a son that cannot take the heat.. poor boy could not get a good night sleep because of it and me too!!! Got to see to the problem!

FU*K!