Tasting oranges for his very first time

Jaden in new Winnie the Pooh overalls by MeiNg

*spanked* and bawl

Today I discovered how to convey my message across to Jaden NOT TO BEHAVE LIKE A CATERPILLAR ON THE NAPPY CHANGING TABLE! As usual, there he was being impatient and caterpillar-ing around. So I spank his thighs. No effect. Spank a little harder.. still no effect. Then, I decided to spank his arms. Thats it la. He stopped to look at me and then with a upturn lip, he started bawling. So, it is the arms that conveys the message. *gRin*

When the father came back from buying lunch, I told him what happened. Without even thinking twice, he went and console the boy which made the boy bawled even louder. Should have just left him alone because he had stopped crying but at the very sight of the father, there he goes starting his waterworks.

So tell me, aren't they all smart to know who to bully and who not to bully? Who to manja with and can get away with it most of the time?

My boy sure knows how.

Cupcakes for my parents

Yay! I have just ordered cupcakes for my parents for their birthdays cum Mother's Day. Some of you will be wondering how is it possible that I am in KL and somewhat manage to order cupcakes and have them delivered to my house in Penang? Well.. I ordered them from i-love-cupcakes. They are going to get a surprise this weekend then. Yippee! Thank God for people like Angeleyes who stays in Penang and decided that this is one of the best ways to earn money. Afterall cupcakes are a hit now compared to normal cakes. Me think this is the first time my parents are exposed to cupcakes with customized designs. How I wish I can see those cute cupcakes for myself.

I almost forgot that today is one of my schoolmate's birthday. Luckily I smsed him before I slept off last night a Birthday wish message. If not, confirm sure emo kao kao! Speaking of Birthdays, today is also Jordan's birthday. Why on earth would I remember Jordan's birthday when he is Hubby's friend. I tell you why. It is because of his birthday I have got to give up free tickets to go see Stephanie Sun's concert in Genting in 2006. That is WHY I remembered!

That reminds me of Aunt Lin's birthday coming up too. *sigh* There is so much things happening on that day. If I am not mistaken, it is also Tommy's birthday and the gatherings of Hubby's SLUT gang at Shen's to celebrate Thevi's pregnancy and also Shen's new pad. Hmm.. Its a happening month !! Not to mention the final between Cardiff Ciry vs. Portsmouth. Yeap! I remember these dates well... sometimes remembering dates can be quite a curse, sometimes not.

Its been so hot lately that my house feels like an oven. I remember last year some time around these months when I was pregnant, it was even worse. When one is pregnant, one feels hotter than usual. I remember me cooping up in the room with the aircon blasts at the lowest temperature it could go. Now, its Jaden's turn to coop in the room because he is also afraid of heat. I can forsee the electric bill skyrocketing... =( Hubby will soon be scolding. *gRin*

I am in the mood to cook at the moment. So I guess I shall seize this moment that both the boys are sleeping and I shall do a little damage now. Wish me luck then! *wink*

Love at first sight? NAH!

I often wondered if I will ever get a boyfriend when I was a little girl. I started having crushes on boys as young as Std 2 but I didn't get one till I was late F4/F5.

I doubt my parents knew about my relationship then but I guess my father did suspect me. Back then, little things like love letters could blew me away. Little things would just made me feel so loved.. I would quickly bathe when I reached home at about 4pm and then run out to another apartment block and pat-toh at the stairway. Now, if I were to see kids do that, all I could do is shake my head and laugh and think its so stupid to hide but I once did it too.

I thought I found the one when I met him while I was holidaying with my mom and aunt. We hooked up and it lasted quite long. There were lots of happy and sad times shared between us but alas, he decided that he has so many girls out there going for him, why stick to me? So over some lame excuse of me being a prying eye, we broke up. Was feeling so devastated that I went on a fasting spree.. till I realized how stupid I was to do such thing. Already a skinny *bitch I was and to starve myself further, wouldn't it be suicidal? So I got my act together and started to eat healthy and tried to have a life of my own again out with my friends. To think about it now, I feel so stupid for feeling like that. But its all good, it made me stronger,

Then I met him who looked Jap-a-like only to find out hes from China. We got on fine with a few 'glitches' here and there but soon, he was just at my heels. Took me back to his hometown and well, his family really treated me like a princess. It was wonderful to spend time with his family but not him. Didn't take me long to figure out that he was not the one that I want to spend my lifetime with so I moved on...

and then I really thought he was the one. Turns out to be the shortest relationship I ever had. He was the typical sweet talker, charming guy who soon after loses interest. I suspect it may also be due to family poisoning if you know what I mean. I don't think the family approve of us much too so well, too bad. It was heartbreaking at first but then I realized that it might only be because of my ego..

A lot of people doubt our relationship. Some even jumped hearing about us. Some absolutely went on out to want to separate us. But when I got on with him, I knew exactly that I would, no matter what, not fear about unfaithfulness. There were so much trust in this relationship that I find it so comfortable. He has so much love to give. There were of course arguments and mean things thrown about but at the end of the day, I just knew that he was the one for me. Definitely him.. and true enough, we ended up together.. him-MY HUBBY... I am glad our path crossed. Its just that being with him, I always feel safe, protected, wanted, loved and loyalty.

So if my young cousins, friends who asked me how is it possible to know if hes the one? Well.. He is the one when you don't have to worry about him being unfaithful.. that his roving eyes and girls are the only thing on his mind. Men you meet in clubs are never a good thing. Knowing a person less than a week and getting on aint exactly a good idea also. My advice would be take your time...

My man? Well.. he is everything I would ask for.. just wishing that he lose that fiery temper at times...

Spanked!

Jaden not only resorted to sleeping on his side, sometimes he will turn to him tummy and sleep. Yesterday at about 5am when I suddenly woke up, a mother's instinct, I saw him rolling over to his tummy and he was clinging on to the little border Hubby and I made so Hubby won't sleep on him should Hubby turn to his right. Jaden clung on to the borderline, his head put 'manja-ly' on the border and slept that way till I gently got up and put him back onto his back. Hes been doing that much often now.. wonder if all babies go through it?

I noticed that hes been rather naughty when his father is around. He would whine and whine nonstop and sometimes even pretend to cry just to get our 100% attention. When he is alone with me, he is much more toned down and sometimes, play by himself and fall asleep without me to pat him to sleep. Guess he found out that he could bully his father. Even when Hubby raises his voice at Jaden, Jaden would retaliate either even whining louder or cry as if hes been abused. Sometimes I do spank him on his thigh. Well, I rather spank him than to see him fall down the nappy changing table. These days he has no patience for me to put the diaper on him. He would try to want to push himself out from the table or roll over. So you tell me, would you rather I spank him and let him lie there thinking what his mother just did to him or let him fall down and have a taste of pain? But of course I would not even let the latter happen. *sigh*

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