Jaden turned 2 years and 5 months old last 28th Feb. I have not been updating his milestones like I used to just because there is nothing much that changed so far. Maybe in his habits here and there but as in development milestones, nothing much really. I am getting very worried as this might mean medical intervention but just as long as he grows up to be a healthy boy, I am fine. I know Hubby hopes the same for Jaden too, as long as he stays healthy and happy all the time.
Ok, enough of the part that I do not want to talk about. Its not that I am in denial over some facts but just that I get tired of explaining of something which have not even been diagnosed or may it just be like his Uncle Raymond' stage. He will probably start talking non-stop when he starts talking. =) Yes, and we are fixing an appointment with a specialist to see to it, so don't go telling me what to do. I know whats best for my child and how I want to go about it, its my way.
Other than that, Jaden developed another bad habit that pisses me off. Biting his shirt front all wet. I am just worried that he might catch a cold through that way and also, doing his laundry over and over again, sometimes daily compared to Hubby's or my laundry. Luckily for that many shirts he has.. but still, water don't need money is it?
Jaden jumps whenever he is happy or excited. Its a wonderful feeling to see him happy. He is usually easily pleased (unless he is in some foul mood -not enough sleep or its nearing naptime). He smiles easily and his smiles melt my heart each time. Those two little dimples etched in.. aawwww!
He has no separation anxiety from either Hubby or I, which is a good thing. He is quite independent to say, only that now he has learnt how to recognize places and sometimes he will just refuse to want to go to other people's houses, for example, his grandfather's, Aunt Lin's as he has not been there for about a year now or 6 months. He is most comfortable at home, doing his usual stuff but he, too, knows when he wants to go out for a walk or two. He understands when I asked him to wear his shoes. He will sit down on the floor and wait patiently as I put on his shoes for him. Yes, he has not learn how to put on his own shoes but I don't really mind that. One thing at a time. He will also know that once he comes into the house, he will have to sit down and take off his shoes before he is allowed to roam freely around the house. Malaysians don't wear shoes in the house!
He is starting to get scared of some characters from Sesame Street and other programmes. Things that don't scare him last time, scares him now. Elephants, Big Bird, Astro Supersport advertisement and much more.. sometimes the Honker Dinker Family, sometimes Elmo and some characters. He still likes Cookie Monster and I hope that continues.
Sometimes Jaden likes to retaliate, rebel and challenge me when I tell him No! or Stop It! Of late, he has developed this one bad behavior that I absolutely hates. Pinching! I have blueblacks all over my arms. It looks as if I have been hit by something hard or being abused at home and its all done by the little boy. Whenever I push him away or tell him NO! Stop it! he comes back for more. Its like he does it with vengeance but in truth, sometimes he is just feeling way too much geram-ness and this is one way he is letting it out. The padaetrician did mention actions like these before but well, Jaden is taking this a little too far. The marks are still there visible on my arms and its making me feel really ugly. Not to say I am not already but adding on to it only makes the self-esteem sink even lower. Hubby does reprimand Jaden for treating me this way but well, the boy still does it so the only way to tell him to back off those bruised arms is to let the cane do the talking. I am brutal when it comes to using the cane. I use it without mercy when he misbehaves because I really cannot stand naughty children. I am not embarassed with how Jaden acts but I would very much like him to listen to instructions and not do it when I tell him not to. I have got a friend who held on to him and gave him a piece of her mind and he just grab on to her and started pinching her back in retaliation. You tell me, such act deserves a caning or a whack? *sigh* I do hate myself for yelling at him and all but sometimes being all sugary and nice to him just don't work and well, the cane works! ONLY FOR A SHORT WHILE though... I can feel my blood pressure rising.... AAARRRGGHHHHH *f r u s t r a t i o n
All said, Jaden is not all that bad. When he is sweet, he is really super duper wooper sweet! He is actually a very nice boy, just as long as you know how to go about with him and all.. but sometimes, its me that is not playing nice. *oops!*
Enough of Jaden in this post for a while, so whats happening with Hubby and I? Well, both of us are in pain of some sort.
Hubby had a terrible terrible toothache last night that it drove him nuts. Yes, he was a nut case last night. His fuse blowing at the slightest thing but well, toothache can really drive someone up the wall so its pretty much acceptable. He could not sleep at all the whole of last night and painkillers at home just don't work on him. Its like his body is resisting to let the painkillers do their job. So today,after work, I took him to a dentist and well, lets just say he is sleeping like a baby now. Making up for lost sleep the whole of yesterday.
Me? My damn left wisdom tooth is starting to cause me discomfort again and I think it is my turn now to go visit the dentist again. Just that this time, maybe I will switch to Hubby's dentist because she seems like a nice gentle lady. Pimple in my nose just won't go away. First it was here because 'aunty' was coming and 'aunty' came and left, the pimple still remains and for those that had pimples in their nose before knows how much it can hurt and theres nothing you can do about it. Take that bitch! Must be all those chocolates I have been chomping down and hot weather and little consumption of H2O made the body heaty till eruptions like that has to take place...... IN THE NOSE of all places..
I have also been thinking that I should start to cut down my food intake. For my body frame, people might think I am still skinny and that I might not eat a lot but sometimes I eat a lot more than my Hubby so yea, I think with all these unhealthy food consumption, it will surely hit me back one day so I might as well start eating healthy now in healthy proportions. I can be such a pig! The last time I weigh myself, I am a whopping 46.2kg! Where did 45 go to? The thighs that I have with me now are thunderous looking and my arms are what EddyHan would call a BYEBYE arm! (with lots of blueblack bruises) DANG! and the tummy? Don't even go there... its so flabby its what you call a SAMCHANBAK (hokkien) My tummy looks like its a Shar-Pei puppy! *sigh* Giving birth ain't gonna be use as a reason to make myself feel better because there is no way that I should allow such thing to happen to myself! I can do it! I can do it! I can do it! Shuddup Simon!
Yea, so there goes my endless ramblings.. bored out yet? =) anyway its late now and I think I have enough of today.. time to go rest those racoon rings I have around my eyes.. some of my friends even suggest me having to getting punch all over or tan myself dark enough to blend in with those two charcoal black rings I have around my eyes. All these imperfections and I am blessed with a husband and child. He must have been really nuts! *gRin*
Ok, enough of the part that I do not want to talk about. Its not that I am in denial over some facts but just that I get tired of explaining of something which have not even been diagnosed or may it just be like his Uncle Raymond' stage. He will probably start talking non-stop when he starts talking. =) Yes, and we are fixing an appointment with a specialist to see to it, so don't go telling me what to do. I know whats best for my child and how I want to go about it, its my way.
Other than that, Jaden developed another bad habit that pisses me off. Biting his shirt front all wet. I am just worried that he might catch a cold through that way and also, doing his laundry over and over again, sometimes daily compared to Hubby's or my laundry. Luckily for that many shirts he has.. but still, water don't need money is it?
Jaden jumps whenever he is happy or excited. Its a wonderful feeling to see him happy. He is usually easily pleased (unless he is in some foul mood -not enough sleep or its nearing naptime). He smiles easily and his smiles melt my heart each time. Those two little dimples etched in.. aawwww!
He has no separation anxiety from either Hubby or I, which is a good thing. He is quite independent to say, only that now he has learnt how to recognize places and sometimes he will just refuse to want to go to other people's houses, for example, his grandfather's, Aunt Lin's as he has not been there for about a year now or 6 months. He is most comfortable at home, doing his usual stuff but he, too, knows when he wants to go out for a walk or two. He understands when I asked him to wear his shoes. He will sit down on the floor and wait patiently as I put on his shoes for him. Yes, he has not learn how to put on his own shoes but I don't really mind that. One thing at a time. He will also know that once he comes into the house, he will have to sit down and take off his shoes before he is allowed to roam freely around the house. Malaysians don't wear shoes in the house!
He is starting to get scared of some characters from Sesame Street and other programmes. Things that don't scare him last time, scares him now. Elephants, Big Bird, Astro Supersport advertisement and much more.. sometimes the Honker Dinker Family, sometimes Elmo and some characters. He still likes Cookie Monster and I hope that continues.
Sometimes Jaden likes to retaliate, rebel and challenge me when I tell him No! or Stop It! Of late, he has developed this one bad behavior that I absolutely hates. Pinching! I have blueblacks all over my arms. It looks as if I have been hit by something hard or being abused at home and its all done by the little boy. Whenever I push him away or tell him NO! Stop it! he comes back for more. Its like he does it with vengeance but in truth, sometimes he is just feeling way too much geram-ness and this is one way he is letting it out. The padaetrician did mention actions like these before but well, Jaden is taking this a little too far. The marks are still there visible on my arms and its making me feel really ugly. Not to say I am not already but adding on to it only makes the self-esteem sink even lower. Hubby does reprimand Jaden for treating me this way but well, the boy still does it so the only way to tell him to back off those bruised arms is to let the cane do the talking. I am brutal when it comes to using the cane. I use it without mercy when he misbehaves because I really cannot stand naughty children. I am not embarassed with how Jaden acts but I would very much like him to listen to instructions and not do it when I tell him not to. I have got a friend who held on to him and gave him a piece of her mind and he just grab on to her and started pinching her back in retaliation. You tell me, such act deserves a caning or a whack? *sigh* I do hate myself for yelling at him and all but sometimes being all sugary and nice to him just don't work and well, the cane works! ONLY FOR A SHORT WHILE though... I can feel my blood pressure rising.... AAARRRGGHHHHH *f r u s t r a t i o n
All said, Jaden is not all that bad. When he is sweet, he is really super duper wooper sweet! He is actually a very nice boy, just as long as you know how to go about with him and all.. but sometimes, its me that is not playing nice. *oops!*
Enough of Jaden in this post for a while, so whats happening with Hubby and I? Well, both of us are in pain of some sort.
Hubby had a terrible terrible toothache last night that it drove him nuts. Yes, he was a nut case last night. His fuse blowing at the slightest thing but well, toothache can really drive someone up the wall so its pretty much acceptable. He could not sleep at all the whole of last night and painkillers at home just don't work on him. Its like his body is resisting to let the painkillers do their job. So today,after work, I took him to a dentist and well, lets just say he is sleeping like a baby now. Making up for lost sleep the whole of yesterday.Me? My damn left wisdom tooth is starting to cause me discomfort again and I think it is my turn now to go visit the dentist again. Just that this time, maybe I will switch to Hubby's dentist because she seems like a nice gentle lady. Pimple in my nose just won't go away. First it was here because 'aunty' was coming and 'aunty' came and left, the pimple still remains and for those that had pimples in their nose before knows how much it can hurt and theres nothing you can do about it. Take that bitch! Must be all those chocolates I have been chomping down and hot weather and little consumption of H2O made the body heaty till eruptions like that has to take place...... IN THE NOSE of all places..
I have also been thinking that I should start to cut down my food intake. For my body frame, people might think I am still skinny and that I might not eat a lot but sometimes I eat a lot more than my Hubby so yea, I think with all these unhealthy food consumption, it will surely hit me back one day so I might as well start eating healthy now in healthy proportions. I can be such a pig! The last time I weigh myself, I am a whopping 46.2kg! Where did 45 go to? The thighs that I have with me now are thunderous looking and my arms are what EddyHan would call a BYEBYE arm! (with lots of blueblack bruises) DANG! and the tummy? Don't even go there... its so flabby its what you call a SAMCHANBAK (hokkien) My tummy looks like its a Shar-Pei puppy! *sigh* Giving birth ain't gonna be use as a reason to make myself feel better because there is no way that I should allow such thing to happen to myself! I can do it! I can do it! I can do it! Shuddup Simon!
Yea, so there goes my endless ramblings.. bored out yet? =) anyway its late now and I think I have enough of today.. time to go rest those racoon rings I have around my eyes.. some of my friends even suggest me having to getting punch all over or tan myself dark enough to blend in with those two charcoal black rings I have around my eyes. All these imperfections and I am blessed with a husband and child. He must have been really nuts! *gRin*
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